I’ve written about the concept and practice of surrender several times. You can go here and here to read more. I also talk about it often in my Facebook group and with my private clients.
I want you to understand what’s actually occurring as you practice surrender, because this will be a game changer for you.
As I’ve said many times, being fierce means NOT forcing. Not forcing one damn thing. That requires a lot of discipline and practice for ambitious women are are always on the go and who have been heavily rewarded for what appears to be making things happen.
Ultimately, though, we don’t “make” anything happen.
We step into BEING a different version of ourselves, aligned with the situation or circumstance we want to be experiencing, we begin to DO things differently or BEHAVE / interact with the external world differently, and then what we want is delivered to us — we HAVE it.
Being
Beingness is about deliberately and consistently thinking the thoughts we will be thinking when the desired reality / experience shows up. We have to continue to think those thoughts NOW in order to step into being that version of ourselves.
Yes, it’s that simple.
Not always easy, as old thoughts are habitual and like to lurk around as they are released. But it truly is as simple as being disciplined with your thoughts.
Doing / Behaving
Once the new thought patterns are beginning to create the new perspective, our behavior automatically changes. We behave from our beingness — and what we believe ourselves to be — so when that shifts, so too does the behavior.
As our behavior and interaction with the external world shifts, the external world will begin to reflect back to us how we are being and behaving. =
It does not take long for this to occur.
Having
The more powerfully you continue to be and behave differently, the more potent the outcome shift will be, and you will begin to HAVE what you are desiring.
In order for us to allow this change to take place, we have to surrender. A lot.
Surrender the old thoughts.
Surrender how we think what we want will be delivered to us.
Surrender old patterns of behavior.
Surrender the outcome itself (so we don’t limit what we can have).
The tendency is to grasp, to try to hold on tightly to what is familiar. This is the work — letting go of the need to control. And this is where having someone who understands the process and can hold you accountable is essential.
Friends mean well, but they are often times quite tied to you remaining who you are, for a variety of reasons. The best thing you can do for your growth, your joy, and to best serve those you came to serve, is to hire a coach to guide you.
With love,
Melissa
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