Author: Melissa Harrison
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The #1 Thing You Need to Do When Overwhelm Strikes (it’s not what you think)
Perhaps you know the scene: You’ve set the goals, created the intentions, you’re doing the damn thing. Taking action. Doing the inner work. Taking more action. Saying hell no to whatever isn’t a fvck yes. More action. You’re seeing some progress. But not what you’d like to see. And not only that, you’re feeling overwhelmed.…
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Fiat Lux, and How to End the Battle with Indecision
When you finally shine your light of awareness (“Fiat lux!” you say. “Let there be light!”), and you finally allow yourself to own what it is you want, your real desires — something curious can happen. A lot of the *opposite* of what you want. Like a whole lot of chaos and clearing. So first,…
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Your Belief in Growth Mindset is Thwarting Your Results (and what to do about it)
Yes, I said it. We’ve all heard about growth mindset, and the importance of cultivating that over a fixed mindset. Quick refresher: people with a growth mindset believe that intelligence and talents can and do grow over time, while those who operate from a fixed mindset feel that intelligence and talent just are what…
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The Truth About Deception
+ deception + A hard truth you need to realize is that they didn’t deceive you. You let yourself BE deceived. You knew, didn’t you, Love? You knew on a gut level and you ignored it. Zero. Judgment. No shame no blame. Just acknowledgement. And you let yourself be deceived because you hadn’t made it…
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If You’re Not Changing It, You’re Choosing It (and what to do differently)
One of the biggest (hidden) issues I see in ambitious, successful women who are struggling to shift a recurring pattern they really want to break is their ability to admit they may actually want the dysfunction. Yes, you read that correctly. In order to receive everything that they want and change what they’re currently experiencing …