So many things attempt to gain our attention, don’t they?
So many moving parts to life, and so many potential distractions.
As a driven, passionate, powerful woman, you must conserve your energy to put toward living your standards, and toward your goals.
It is essential that you not give energy to things that truly don’t warrant it.
Otherwise, you risk moving out of flow state, out of your power, and the experiences that result will not align with what you know you are truly meant to be living.
The key to ensuring you remain unmovable is in refusing to engage with anything reactively.
That is, maintain as nonchalant and unemotional a response as possible, especially when something appears in your experience that doesn’t align with your standards.
This is the most important time to pause, and refocus.
It sounds great, right?
But you and I know it is easier said than done when certain situations arise.
So how can you stay in your power even then?
Decide ahead of time and remind yourself that everything is working in your favor.
Remember: nothing has any inherent meaning. Every single thing only has the meaning we assign and attach to it.
Take the time to look at a situation in your life that you have given a certain meaning to and ask yourself, is this the ONLY meaning it could have? Would someone else see it differently? If I wasn’t emotionally charged about it, would I see it differently?
Be open to seeing different perspectives.
Then, each morning, decide that nothing is going to move you from your place of power. It may get you to sway a teensy bit, but move? No way.
Be determined to choose a perspective for everything that is most empowering. And if by chance you can’t immediately see the benefit, simply remind yourself that everything is for your good and working toward your desired goals, and know you will eventually see how.
With love,
Melissa
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