When you fully decide to step into and embody the next level, and as you align your thoughts and actions with that, you are going to experience that — at first — seems like loss.
It is inevitable. So I want you to understand the purpose and meaning of it now, and how to handle it.
First, please understand, it is not actually loss. In truth, it is evolution.
For powerful change to occur (think caterpillar to butterfly), things, people, circumstance must be shed. It isn’t loss — it is evolution. The building blocks they provided (the lessons, the blessings) will remain with you. But the specifics cannot.
Secondly, from an energetic standpoint, everyone is you pushed out. The people who you can sense are beginning to turn away, or who you know need to fall away, are mirroring order versions of you that no longer serve your current mission and are incompatible with where you are headed.
They cannot go where you are going. And you cannot afford to stay put.
Third, take an account of where you are headed and what in your current reality or experience is clearly incompatible with that. Be deliberate about giving thanks for the part it all played in your life, and then let it fall away by keeping your focus decidedly forward.
Lastly, and most importantly, be more RUTHLESS and proactive. I want you to make preemptive cuts from your life. Yes of course show gratitude as it feels best, but then? Snip, snip.
You’ve got this. Onward to the evolution.
With love,
Melissa
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