Tag: relationships
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When You Can’t Get Yourself Blacklisted (what to do about it)
Dear Friends, It may not always feel possible to get yourself blacklisted. Please watch this video for more information on what to do. Love and light, Melissa xoxoxo Please share, as this may help someone get unstuck, and find her freedom. Click here to get instant access to my private webinar, “Top 10 Tips…
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The Insider’s Guide to Getting Out of Toxic Relationships
It didn’t seem toxic at first. In fact, it started out as most of us have heard toxic relationships do — as a knight in shining armor saving the damsel in distress. Except I wouldn’t admit to myself that I was a damsel in distress, even though I was. When I met him, I had…
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What to Do When the No-Sex-With-The-Ex Rule is Broken
“At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don’t keep other people out, they fence you in. Life is messy. That’s how we’re made. So you can waste your life drawing lines… or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines… that are way too dangerous to cross. Here’s…
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Why I Chose to Drop the Victim Mentality and Leave
So. Why did I leave? He has tried almost every way humanly possible to make up for the betrayal. For three years he’s tried. He’s only slightly wavered twice, and quite frankly, that’s a heroic feat, in my book. So why would I leave someone who clearly loved me enough to try everything he…
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Want to Kick Your Authenticity in the Ass? Settle.
I got triggered by something today. Something that made me realize I do still seek approval. Not in the same way as I have in the past, mind you. But that stomach-sinking feeling made me all too aware that more work needs to be done in the I-Am-Worthy department. That awareness got me thinking further.…