Tag: perspective
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How to Transform Being Triggered By An Ex / Co-Parent
The ex and I had a discussion about whether or not to allow Diva to attend an event. My gut said no. And I shared that I was inclined to say no. Also, Diva will only be with me for two out of the seven days this event is taking place and we have plans…
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How to Define Your Own Priorities For Real
The older I get, the more I live, the more I recognize that it’s crucial to define my own life priorities and not allow someone else’s priorities to define my life for me. It’s an easy enough trap to get into. We see the glamour shots version of most people. But it’s rare for others…
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When You Can’t Decide What You Want, Do These 3 Things
“The problem, simply put, is that we cannot choose everything simultaneously. So we live in danger of becoming paralyzed by indecision, terrified that every choice might be the wrong choice.” – Elizabeth Gilbert “You are not the victim of the world, but rather the master of your own destiny. It is your choices and decisions…
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How These Highly Influential Men Are Aligned with Their Divine Feminine (and why you need to be, too)
Divine Feminine energy has been coming up a lot lately for me, and for my clients. Well, the lack of allowing it to be expressed through us, I should say. I have always been an action-oriented person, which is masculine in nature. If things aren’t going the way I want them to, I tend to…
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Harvard Agrees: Get Out of That Toxic Relationship
In his November 2015 TED Talk, psychiatrist Robert Waldinger delivers insight gathered from the longest study on happiness. He also, although perhaps without realizing it, gives yet another insanely important reason why you need to get the hell out of and stay the hell away from toxic relationships. The Harvard Study of Adult Development has,…