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After you have the vision, the insight, the flash of purpose and decide to move forward, what do you do? You set goals, yes? And then benchmarks.  And you start taking action. I need you to understand that setting goals the way you have been is severely limiting your outcomes, and success. Here’s why. You’re…

When you finally shine your light of awareness (“Fiat lux!” you say. “Let there be light!”), and you finally allow yourself to own what it is you want, your real desires — something curious can happen. A lot of the *opposite* of what you want.  Like a whole lot of chaos and clearing.   So first,…

Yes, I said it.  We’ve all heard about growth mindset, and the importance of cultivating that over a fixed mindset.   Quick refresher:  people with a growth mindset believe that intelligence and talents can and do grow over time, while those who operate from a fixed mindset feel that intelligence and talent just are what…

+ deception + A hard truth you need to realize is that they didn’t deceive you. You let yourself BE deceived. You knew, didn’t you, Love? You knew on a gut level and you ignored it.  Zero. Judgment.  No shame no blame. Just acknowledgement.  And you let yourself be deceived because you hadn’t made it…

One of the biggest (hidden) issues I see in ambitious, successful women who are struggling to shift a recurring pattern they really want to break is their ability to admit they may actually want the dysfunction. Yes, you read that correctly. In order to receive everything that they want  and change what they’re currently experiencing …